As the clock strikes midnight tonight (while we can only hope our newborn babies are fast asleep), mothers everywhere find themselves caught in the whirlwind of resolutions and aspirations. However, this year, let’s start something different—a year that celebrates the art of slowing down, cherishing the fleeting moments, and setting smaller, more attainable goals. In the chaos of motherhood, there lies a gentle magic, and in the simplicity of everyday moments, a profound joy.
Section 1: Embracing the Present Moment
Amidst the chaos of motherhood, it’s easy to get swept away by the constant demands and the never-ending to-do lists. Instead of chasing after time, let’s take a moment to breathe. As the new year unfolds, pledge to embrace the present moment. Whether it’s a shared laugh with your little or the warmth of a bedtime hug, savor these snippets of joy. By slowing down, we unlock the beauty hidden in the ordinary.
Section 2: Cherishing the Small Victories
As a photographer, and as a Mom, I have learned to focus on what’s important. Motherhood is a series of triumphs, both big and small. This year, let’s shift our focus from huge resolutions to cherishing the small victories. Celebrate the times when you manage to steal a moment for yourself, conquer a challenging parenting scenario, or get to see your kiddo beam with pride as they learn a new skill. You managed a full shower while your newborn baby slept peacefully? Celebrate that! By acknowledging these daily triumphs, you’ll find fulfillment in the journey rather than fixating on the things you can’t control.
Section 3: Setting Attainable Goals
In a world that glorifies monumental resolutions, mothers can find solace in setting smaller, more attainable goals. As a photographer and a Mom, there are always new to-do items. (You can read here how much detail goes into a shoot.) Instead of aiming for perfection, set intentions that align with the ebb and flow of family life. Whether it’s dedicating a few minutes each day to self-care or incorporating simple rituals that enhance family connections, these achievable goals become stepping stones toward a more balanced and fulfilling life.
Section 4: Crafting Meaningful Traditions
As we welcome the new year, consider weaving meaningful traditions into the fabric of your family life. These need not be grand or elaborate—simple acts like a weekly family movie night or a monthly nature walk can create lasting memories. As a photographer, I’ve been able to see lots of families living their traditions, and it’s great to witness. (Some shoots that might be your new tradition here.) By intentionally crafting these moments, you provide your family with a sense of stability and create a tapestry of shared experiences that will be cherished for years to come.
Conclusion:
There is something special about a new year. It’s not meant to be a time of setting unattainable goals or being hard on yourself for the things not accomplished in the previous year. (You don’t have to have perfect Family Pictures every single holiday.) It’s meant to be a time of reflection and pause. Remember that you made it to the end of another year, Mama. You did it. Even on the days it felt impossible, you made it. Whether you’re a new mom who just brought your newborn baby home a few weeks ago, or you are a veteran mom with 6 kiddos who can all wipe their own butts, I hope you can take some time as we bring this year to a close and be proud of yourself. Not just your kids, your home, your marriage, etc. No. You. You did it. And you’ll do it again in 2024. Happy New Year, Mamas.
